The right ideas deserve to be executed.
You don’t need more ideas. You need to execute on the ones you have.
I’m Dr. Vanity—a wife, a mother of four sons, a U.S. Air Force veteran, and the founder of multiple award-winning businesses.
With a Ph.D. in Business and a career built on leadership, entrepreneurship, and personal growth, I bring both academic depth and real-world experience to my work. I understand the tension between ambition and responsibility, structure and flexibility, pressure and peace—because I live it every day.
I mentor individuals who are ready to do the work and make real progress.
About Me
I’ve served in the military, launched and grown several businesses, been married, and raised four sons.
Every part of my life has revealed the same thing: clarity changes everything.
2017
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2003-2015
U.S. Air Force
Second business
2009
First business
First son
2013
Second son
2018
2016
2020
PhD
Third son
2022
Fourth son
2020
VANBAR Holdings
2024
BG5 Consultant
BG5™ CAREER DESIGN
What If Your Career Was Actually Designed for You?
BG5™ Career Design helps you understand how you're built to operate—how you work, make decisions, respond to pressure, and move through life. It gives you a clear read on yourself so you stop fighting your own nature and start working with it.
Every person has a unique Career Design made up of Success Codes that show what comes naturally, where you get stuck, and what supports your best results. It also reveals where you've taken on habits and expectations that don’t actually belong to you.
WORK WITH me
Career Design Overview
$250
60 minutes
A focused introduction to your BG5™ Career Design.
You’ll discover the top six Success Codes that reveal how you work, decide, and create results
• Career Type
• Decision-Making Strategy
• Public Role
• Team Role
• Key Business Skills
• Environment Style
Your 6 Success Codes include:
Full Career Design Analysis
90 minutes + personalized summary
$350
A complete 16-code Career Blueprint that maps how you’re designed to lead, contribute, and sustain long-term success.
Your 16 Success Codes reveal:
• Everything from the Overview
• Life Work Theme
• General Thematic Role
• Conditioning Influences
• Distractions
• Assimilation Style
Implementation Plan (PDF or video)
Private Mentorship
Custom Rate
Structured, strategic one-on-one mentorship for individuals ready to execute with alignment.
You’ll receive:
• Ongoing strategy sessions
• Intentional systems that free your time
• Real-time access + accountability
• Leadership and personal alignment support
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Be the CEO of You
This keynote breaks down what it truly means to be the CEO of yourself—and how to start showing up as the person you actually want to be, not the one you’ve been pretending to be or the one you’ve settled into. It’s honest, practical, and for audiences that are finally ready to be honest with themselves and change the way they’re living.